It seems like I might go for a week or two without receiving any unfriendly, blog-related emails and comments, and then, as if in a brilliantly coordinated effort, I'll receive several unfriendly, blog-related emails and comments within a few days... It's not something that surprises me anymore (there seems to be a pattern, although not related to any particular subject that I post about), and very few of these emails and comments really affect me like they used to...but it still can wear me down, especially when my life is as busy as it has been recently.
I learned a while ago that it's not worth it to spend time and emotion and energy posting responses to the negative...and, while I may respond now and then in the comments sections, I usually just delete and forget, delete and forget.
Since I don't believe that anything is coincidental, and because this week is going to be a crazy one (with a "normal" work week, trying to finish the house, and taking a trip to NJ and back), I've decided that the recent barrage of negativity is a good sign that I should take the week off from blogging.
So, you might see one more fun post from me tonight, and then you probably won't hear from me again until after this coming weekend. Hopefully, when I do post again, it will be filled great news of a fun time with our NJ family and friends and a possible moving day before Christmas!
Thanks to all of my great readers...the VAST majority of whom are always positive and encouraging. I hope this post comes across as un-negatively as possible, because I feel very positive right now. :)
And, enjoy your week away from me!
Nate
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Ahh Nate. I sure wouldn't give those who are so negative a second thought. There's always one in the bunch. Thing is they can go on and on . But it doesn't change a thing about your story you are sharing with all of us or the potential to change the life of many out there.
Taking a break is okay to. I am doing that lately myself. You have a ton going on. So take care of your Girls and yourself. Its okay to do so. This blog is secondary.
I will watch for updates..but I know you need the time with your family.
I am wishing all of you many miracles and blessings this holiday season.
Hugs and prayers from Michigan
Kerry
TIME'S UP, TIME TO BLOG AGAIN, NOT SO PATIENTLY WAITING NOW! PRAYERS FROM SOUTH DAKOTA.
I checked in on Sunday.I am proud of you,it will be a week tommorow and no update!I hope the next entry is dated December 22 or even later.
Hope all is well.
Just checking in! Hope you are enjoying your time in NJ. It sounds like it could be cold up there. Have a very Merry Christmas and an awesome New Year. Even though we aren't posting everyday we are still praying everyday for you guys.
Anyone who uses email and blogs knows that this isn't the best medium for communicating. So much is left to interpretation.
And many take things so literally. That muddies up the water somewhat, too, esp. when you many not truly know the person.
And then there are so many of us who are extremely insecure and thin-skinned. That makes this kind of communication a potentially volatile place.
FWIW, I don't think Chloe said anything "vicious"!
I hope you still read your comments. I really have enjoyed your blog and have missed getting updates. I know youre a busy person but please let me know how you all are doing!
sincerely,
melissa
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