At the risk of sounding incredibly cruel and ungrateful because we know that many people cannot understand our situation...
Please, please, please, do NOT come by the hospital to visit/meet us unless you've contacted me ahead of time, AND I've said it's OK.
The hospital, especially Tricia's floor is our home right now, and, while we do appreciate the good intentions, it's incredibly awkward to have somebody (especially total strangers) come by unexpectedly and expect us to be OK with it.
We very much appreciate those who have come by to visit (especially those who have asked permission ahead of time).
Thanks!
Nate